When you are alive then why act dead

We are in a place where people respond to you if you are productive! if you can't favour then you are good for nothing. If you don't help in increasing bank balance then you are not worth for that guy's time. We are made emotionally attached to our family or to the once that we love the most it by default and feel that if we dont give of full time in terms of money then we are not a good son or daughter ( according to relation) We all must know that the people which you feel are dependent on you is directly proportional to their feeling they all so feel that they are your motivation so its just "give and take" relation so if wont find yourself in that position then people who are looking up to you will feel that if you want do to something in life that something should be assigned to you by someone. Thats not the way our life's should move forward. It should be our ideas, our thoughts ,our own intution. Very great people have done what they felt ...